Category: Wellness

  • Personal Power Tips

    There are many ways to define personal power. Here are some to consider.

    • Personal power is being in control of your life.
    • Personal power is the ability to achieve what you want.
    • Personal power equals the control of resources.
    • Powerful people are focused on their goals.
    • Powerful people take impactful action.
    • Personal power is the ability to influence others.
    • Personal power is freedom.

    ON A SCALE FROM WEAKEST TO STRONGEST

    Now, of course, power can be used positively or negatively. It has been said that being forceful is the weakest power of all. Brute strength often only yields negativity and resentment; and only short term gain. A much stronger use of power is to use charm and positive influence to help others build their power. This is a much longer-lasting strategy with easily seen benefits including increasing the power of the initial charmer.

    TUNE IN

    Be an observer of yourself throughout your days. Take periodic attitude checks. Begin to recognize when you feel apathy, negativity, or just generally stuck. Use those feelings as a signal to alert you that you have lost touch with your personal power. Once you are able to recognize what it feels like when your power is depleted, then you can start to experiment and find what works to make you feel powerful again. At that point, you will be cued into a key cycle that you can use to manage yourself to success.

    FOR A POWER BOOST

    • ­Think about a time when you had power and let your body and your mind feel it.­
    • ­Practice non-reaction. Don’t let others goad you. Instead pause. Respond calmly when thoughtful and ready.
    • ­Use positive self-talk.
    • ­Assume goodwill.
    • Take action.
  • The Stress Relief Movie

    ***Video Transcript***

    “Is everything as urgent as your stress would imply?”  –Carrie Latet

    “What different lives we should lead if we take things by the minute!” –Gilbert-Ann Taylor

    “In times of great stress or adversity, it’s always best to keep busy, to plow your anger and your energy into something positive.” –Lee Iacocca

    “Hope is as cheap as despair.” –Proverb

    “In times of stress, be bold and valiant.” –Horace

    “They who live in worry invite death to hurry.” –Anonymous

    “Men for the sake of getting a living forget to live.” –Margaret Fuller

    “Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.” –Chinese Proverb

    —end transcript —

  • Know Your Stressbusters

    Stress is a normal part of life. Still, like anything else, too much can be harmful to not only our mental faculties but also our physical health. We must not only reduce stress in our lives but bolster our wellness to weather the inevitable stresses.

    The basics of bolstering wellness are to: 

    • Eat food that helps you feel good.
    • Move and stretch your body daily.
    • Adhere to a good sleep routine.

    You must figure out how what works for your unique needs best in these areas of nutrition, exercise, and rest. When you do, that foundation will keep your body more robust and healthy.

    Learning to let your mind free of stresses and worries is also an important stress buster. Meditation and quiet contemplation are two methods of reducing stress. If you’re not into meditation, spend a half-hour or so each night reading a good book in a comfortable chair or take up an enjoyable hobby. Anything that distracts you from the concerns of the day and allows you a chance to decompress can be a worthwhile activity.

    Go for a walk in the park or get a pet. Get a dog and take the dog for a walk in the park. A walk outdoors in the fresh air can do wonders for reducing stress, as can a companion animal. It likely wouldn’t hurt to combine the two if you’re so inclined.

    Play games. Card games. Board games. Video games. Whatever floats your boat. You could also try puzzles. Putting a jigsaw puzzle together may be an excellent way to decompress also. It’s hard to worry about work when you’re trying to find a matching piece! Or, do a crossword puzzle, word find, or sudoku.

    If you’re artistic, you could paint, draw, or even just doodle. You could try needlecrafts, sand art, sculpture, wood carving, sewing, or whatever suits your interests.

    Take time to listen to music or watch television. Take an evening and go out for dinner and a movie. See a play. Go to a sporting event.

    The important thing is to take some time out for yourself. Find something that works for you, and remember to take time to do it. Relaxing and recharging is essential!

    Practice Being Organized

    Some stress is caused by situations beyond our control, making it all the more important to do what we can to reduce stress in the circumstances we can control.

    One thing within our control is our level of organization. While it may seem to have little to do with stress levels on the face of it, a lack of organization will prove otherwise in a stressful situation.

    If you’re under pressure to find an item in a stressful situation, imagine how much more stressed you become when you cannot locate it.

    As you shuffle through papers, folders, and drawers, your frantic searching may cause further disorganization, setting the stage for a later repeat of the situation. If, instead, you can quickly locate what you need when you need it, your stress levels will be lower than they might otherwise be.

    Naturally, the first step is to do a thorough cleaning, eliminate clutter, and organize everything needed.

    • Make sure you organize everything in a manner that makes sense for you, using a system you will remember and stick with.
    • Once you get organized, stay organized.
    • Each day, set aside a few minutes to get your work area back in order.

    Ideally and when practical, follow a pattern where you handle each item only once. For example, when you get a new document or piece of mail, read it and then act on it, file it, or recycle it. Eliminate the “I’ll do it later” items as much as possible. Too often, later never comes because of other more pressing needs. Additionally, you won’t suffer the stress of seeing a growing stack of “I’ll do it later” items sitting on your desk. You can better focus on the job at hand rather than being frustrated by the amount of work left to do.

    Being better organized will not eliminate stress, but it can help keep it at reduced levels. Plus, it makes for a better and easier home and workplace, so there is no downside. Get organized and reap the benefits of increasing your productivity and reducing your stress level.

    Remember to Breathe

    Feeling a little stressed is a normal part of the working day, but when stress gets to be too much, it can affect your judgment causing you to make rash decisions. It can also affect you physically, causing tension in your muscles, increased heart rate, or aches and pains.

    The key is to keep stress at a manageable level. One way to do this is with a simple breathing exercise.

    • Sit still in a relaxed position with your back straight.
    • Clear your mind as much as possible.
    • Breathe in slowly, for a deep breath.
    • Hold, but only as long as it is comfortable.
    • Breathe out slowly.
    • Hold.
    • Breathe in.
    • Hold.
    • Breathe out.
    • Hold.

    Repeat often. Take a few seconds here and there. Use a simple breathing exercise regularly to help lower your stress level.

  • On Making Changes in Your Body

    When you want to make changes to your body, such as losing or gaining weight, adding muscle, or developing your fashion style, it’s good to remember that it all begins with what you think of yourself. For satisfying progress and results, cut yourself a break and learn to discipline your thoughts to focus more on not only what you appreciate about your body but also what you appreciate in your life.

    Positive transformations can take place within your body. There are solutions around for you. If you can tap into a new positive expectation, you will be brought to ideas that you had not noticed before, or you may try something again with a whole new attitude that makes all the difference. Or, on an even bigger scale, you may find a new understanding as to why being slowed down with difficulty with your body provides you with an experience that helps you develop a needed skill or have a special experience in your life.

    When you know what improvement you want in your body, you have a few choices. You can feel angry, depressed, or generally awful about yourself…or you can treat yourself as a child of the universe who is learning, and you can cut yourself a break.

    All that happened before is part of the process that brings you to now, and that’s all, just a step along the way. If you notice that you often look back and kick your own butt about stuff, try letting it go instead. You can be sure you did the best you could with the information you had at the time. So be kind to yourself. You are open to change and improvement now, and that is fine and good.

    Move forward with inspiration knowing that you have always made the best move you were capable of at the time, and you will continue to do the same. Now is the time to nurture yourself by controlling your focus. What matters is what happens next, and your results going forward are directly related to feeling good now.

    Imagine how you will feel when you have what you want and choose to feel that way now. Get jazzed about all the experiences you want to have and what you want to create and go with that feeling as long as you can for a few minutes every single day. Daydream that the changes you want are already here. Do it with an attitude of fun. It’s fun to play with ideas of what you can choose and what the improvements will mean for your life.

    Appreciate vitality when you see it. Use the beauty you see around you as a reason to feel good. Know that more vitality is coming to you when you can feel good, even if only for a little bit at first. Each time you practice, you will become better and better at feeling good and appreciating your body.

    The importance of being okay with slow results can’t be over-emphasized. If you allow yourself to reinforce feelings of frustration or anger at slow results, you defeat your own purpose. Change can come, and it may be at a snail’s pace, but if you focus on the slow pace, you get more of a slow-down. 

    Instead, please focus on the momentum. Ideas you can use are coming faster and faster. It is getting easier and easier to maintain the good habits you intended. There is momentum, and you are heading in a direction that feels good as you remember to enjoy life from where you are right now.