What follows is an excerpt from my book Bliss Or Bust: Uplifting Thoughts.
Can you do anything about what others think of you? Should you even try? No, don’t even try, not directly anyway. Taking direct action meant to control what others think of you is a losing strategy. It puts them in the driver’s seat and you jumping through hoops.
Instead, use the indirect method by working on your own vibration. Once you realize the power of vibing on the love side of the scale, it is easy to see the importance of managing your focus. In relationships, the one most clear of their intentions and most stable in their vibration will dominate.
One vibing on the love side of the scale is much stronger than many vibing on the fear side of the scale. The one on the love side of the scale can be brought down by focusing too much on uplifting the others. Others can uplift themselves just the same. In fact, they are the only ones that can do it. Stand your ground and set the high vibing example.
Make it a priority to feel your own vibration soaring for a few minutes each day. Allow the high vibe, make a space for it. Do so and you will find day-to-day interactions flowing like never before.